To the Mother of my children
19.02.05

Public appeal to the Mother of my children John-Michael and Sebastian Hickman, Nicola Hickman to negotiate with me in the best interest of our children

19.02.05

Dear Nicola,

Below I have a few points I want to remind you of and to put on the record followed by four questions.

When you arrived in South Africa you told all and sundry that you had problems with your parents in particular with your father.

You told every one you met how much you hated your father, even complete strangers.

You told me that you would make your father pay for what he had done to you and pay he would.

In December 1992 you told me about your stay in the psychiatric hospital and that you were there as a direct result of the emotional and sexual abuse you had suffered at the hands of your father, Uwe Focken. You told me that your father Uwe Focken had been called to attend a meeting at the hospital to discuss his abuse of you and that he became very angry indeed that the truth had been made known.

You often blackmailed your father for large amounts of money while we were married to me.

You told me that if you left me your father had promised you large amounts of money to do so.

The situation now is that you have your father exactly where you have always wanted him. You have got his attention and he has to pay for your co-operation.

What is happening at the moment is really perverse in that by refusing me access to our children you get exactly what you have always  wanted from your father.  One way or the other you have your father exactly where you have always wanted him. If I do nothing you get what you want from your father, If I give your father what he rightly deserves I am doing you a huge, huge big favour, this is the cherry on the top for you. No wonder you have played your cards the way you have. I am doing your dirty work for you, I am doing to your father exactly what you would always have loved to have done to him yourself but could not for one reason have done to him. You have found yourself in the perfect situation to destroy your father once and for all time, to get your own on him, without ever being in danger of exposing or damaging your self. I carry out what you could not carry out against him yourself because you are both a victim to his manipulations and a benefactor, you can never afford to openly expose your father because you would have lost the sympathy from your supporters and would have lost the ability to continue to blackmail and squeeze money out of him if you were seen to be the one who has exposed him.  You are no doubt having great pleasure knowing that I am doing to your father what you would love to have been able to do to him yourself all your life without risk to yourself. No wonder you have not tried at all to ever offer false evidence to prove that what I have said about your father is untrue or in any way tried to defend your father Uwe Focken against my allegations against him. Obviosly you stand to loose far too much if I stop exposing your father and his dirty and criminal deeds therefore your silence on the matter. No doubt this is also why certain information gets leaked to me from time to time.

I ask you just four things Nicola is it worth it to destroy the lives of and the future of our two boys John-Michael and Sebastian just so that you can level an old score with your father that you always claimed to hate more than anyone or any thing on earth?

When are you going to start acting as a responsible parent towards our children?

When are you going to stop violating the fundamental freedoms and human rights of our two boys, John-Michael and Sebastian?

Nicola it is time for you to tell the truth and to put this issue with your father to bed once and for all time as the cost and damage to our children is immeasurable. Do you want our children John-Michael and Sebastian one day to hate you as much as you hate your own father Uwe Focken?

With my kindest regards
Michael

Michael Hickman
135 Torquay Avenue
Durban 4052
South Africa

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